我仿佛只是个生活的旁观者

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长期从事技术工作，社交面极其简化的我，不知从什么时候开始，仿佛变成了生活的旁观者，社会的局外人。

中国很大，情况很复杂，社会又在快速的发展，不同的时期有各种不同的“红利”。桌面上可见的就曾经有招工、接班、划转、提干等等，即便现在也有从优秀xx中选拔xx，“组织研究决定”等等。桌面下，解决个事业编制、职称更是比比皆是。中国真的很神奇，什么问题都可以变通的解决，有些人走出的捷径确实让人称奇。有一点可以确认，世界上永远没有完美的系统，必然有动态的漏洞。

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只是仿佛各种限制都是给我制定的，各种漏洞都是给别人敞开的。

有时候感觉，社会和生活也许真的不是我们看到、想到的那样，因为我们没有去参与，只是旁观者，不知道其中的滋味。就像也许你觉得小县城的基层社区很low，但并不妨碍人家年纪轻轻就拿下副高职称，买最新的苹果手机，休年假出国旅游。

知晓那么多的天下大事、听那么多的财经节目，从宏观上对放开三胎、教育双减、房住不炒、带量采购……有融会贯通的理解又有什么用呢？还是不如人家祖上有荫、家里有矿或者八面玲珑、左右逢源、无往不利，活的滋润！不是管理者，甚至不是参与者，宏观和个人生活之间就隔着一道难以跨越的沟渠！';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>';font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;>

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看人家看的太过仔细，就会心里不平衡，何苦呢？别人钱再多，也不会分给你。自己挣一分是一分呀！各尽所能，墙内损失墙外补吧。努力了、付出了、争取了，对得起上天赐予的有儿有女、家庭和睦的平淡生活，对得起手上这份工作，对得起自己的基本价值观就可以了。